Being Happy is Being Grateful for What You Have.
February 28, 2008By having a attitude of gratitude you can cut a lot of stress, relationship problems, and struggle out of your business, work and life. If you are grateful for what you have got, you can enjoy life more and get the most out of life because you don’t need the next thing so desperately, that you work hard, long, neglect and step on others to get what you want now, or as soon as possible.
Do you spend all of your time trying to get things and to have things that you don’t yet have, that you don’t have time to enjoy what you have got? Do you like and enjoy what you have? If the answer is yes to any of the above than you need to look at how grateful you are.
Many Professionals including Doctors, Phycologist, Motivational Speakers, Religious Books highlight the need for you to be Grateful for what you have.
Here is a few reasons why to be grateful for what you have, and build an attitude of gratitude, but there are many more
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People that like what they have, are contented and make time to enjoy what they have.
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Creates an ability to seeing positives in life’ situations
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Creates a sense of accomplishment and achievement Wins and achievements in life are not hollow and unfulfilling, they mean something.
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People have happy friendships, relationships and marriages and. (Probably because they are balanced and not trying to get what they want all of the time every time)
How to start to become a grateful person and build an and build attitude of gratitude
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Make a list of things that you have
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Make a list of your achievements
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Look for the amount of work others have done to make it possible for you to experience these things and achievements.
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Acknowledge and thank others that make contributions to your work, business and your life.
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Review your list and Enjoy what you have every day. You will become a happy Grateful person.
Just think you cannot own or rent a house, unit or flat etc if materials weren’t invented. Did you invent your computer or someone else? Did you invent your food and grow it or someone else?
All of a sudden you realise that many people had to work together for you to have and experience what you have today. Many of these individuals gave their time for free, in research, study and even gave their money sometimes sending them bankrupt; some even lost their lives yet they and their families were grateful for contributing to society.
We sometimes get so focused on what we want that the big picture is lost, others are passed by, even those we love are taken for granted and are not acknowledged for their contributions and in our life and in our own self-centredness we miss out on of happiness and joy, because we are ungrateful for what we have and experience.
Build attitude of gratitude and make your world better.
Posted by Neville Grundy